©️ By Sophie Lewis | The Grooming Files | @sophielewiseditorial
The Porn Crisis
They stole something sacred. We’re taking it back.
After all we’ve exposed, the patterns, the silence, the pain, the final question is this:
Where do we go from here?
Because once you’ve seen what porn does, to kids, to culture, to desire, to safety, you can’t unsee it.
But that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re waking up.
And waking up is the beginning of taking your power back.
Step One: Recognise what wasn’t yours
If your first experience of “sex” was porn, you didn’t choose your script. You inherited it. You absorbed it. You survived it.
That doesn’t make you bad. It makes you human.
You are not your search history. You are not your worst moment. You are not what they taught you to crave.
You get to rewrite this.
Step Two: Break the loop
Whether you’re someone struggling with:
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Compulsive porn use
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Shame around desire
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Escalation you don’t understand
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A fetish you didn’t ask for
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Or thoughts you’re scared to say out loud
There is a way out.
It starts with honesty. Not judgement. Not punishment. Not silence.
You don’t have to stay in hiding.
Step Three: Use what’s out there
Here are some starting points if you’re struggling:
Support for compulsive porn use:
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NoFap – peer-led support to quit porn & reclaim control
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Fight The New Drug – free, research-based education about porn’s effects
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Reboot Nation – forums, videos, tools for rewiring the brain
Mental health & crisis help:
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Mind UK – mental health support, trauma resources, helplines
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StopSO UK – specialist therapy for people at risk of offending or struggling with compulsive urges
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Sex Addicts Anonymous UK – 12-step recovery for compulsive sexual behaviours
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Lucy Faithfull Foundation – confidential support for people worried about their own behaviour toward children
💬 Want to talk?
I’m Sophie, the journalist behind this series. But I’m also a survivor. A researcher. And someone who listens.
If you’ve been impacted by this, in any way and want to talk, share your story, or just be heard…
📩 Email me confidentially: sophie.editorial@outlook.com
Whether you’re a survivor, a parent, someone in crisis, or someone stuck in a loop… I won’t judge you. I’ll listen.
Step Four: Take it back
This is about more than quitting porn.
This is about reclaiming:
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Your body
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Your voice
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Your desire
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Your boundaries
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Your ability to feel without shame
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Your right to say no, or yes, with full power
This is about sex that’s not stolen, scripted, or sold.
It’s about truth.
Step Five: Stay awake
Because the porn industry is still pushing. The algorithms are still grooming. The silence is still useful, to everyone but us.
But you’ve seen it now. You know what it does. You feel it.
And that knowledge is a weapon. Use it.
Talk. Resist. Interrupt. Rebuild. Even if it’s just in your own mind.
That’s where the real fight starts.
This is the resistance.
Not against sex. Not against desire. Against the theft.
They took something sacred.
Now we’re taking it back.
Full Series: The Porn Crisis
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